[note from kelly: I second everything Liz says about Max. I hope to follow in his example with my students.]
You may wonder what makes a teacher great. What is a teacher versus an instructor? What makes one teacher different from another? What makes a teacher right for you?
I have often heard when you are ready, the teacher will appear. I have been very fortunate to study with the same person for 9 years. This is something that is fairly unheard of in the West and especially this day and time. People are often seeking, seeking, seeking and find breadth over depth... That is to say they learn a little from a lot of people, rather than a lot from a few select sources.
Here is how I knew my teacher was the right one for me. It is my hope that this will help guide each of you on your path...The first sign was the way I felt after my first yoga class with Max. I had been to yoga classes for 4 years off and on and never found a teacher that I could stick with. Brian took me to Max's class one morning and I felt different, somewhat changed from a one hour and forty-five minute class. I began to go to class more frequently and then Max started to chat with me before or after class.
Eventually, he began to speak to me about how I was feeling or what was happening in both of our worlds. It was at this time that he invited me to take his teacher training. We were in the midst of studying ahimsa (non-violence or pure love) when September 11th happened. I will never forget the yoga class I took on September 12th. I knew at this time, more than any other, Max wasn't an instructor, he was a teacher, teaching us about more than asana. I became kinder, less reactive, and more aware of all of my actions and their effects on others.
When Brian and I left LA, I thought I had left my teacher. I cried about it for two years actually. Every time I went back to LA, I would cry when leaving (Max' s studio a the time) Sacred Movement. Max would ask if Charlotte was really that bad... "Well, yes and no. I have no teacher!"
I must have sounded pretty silly to Max, since he was still my teacher. Lucky for us, we opened North Main Yoga and Max has been our guest here each year. On top of that, Brian and I travel once per year to study with Max somewhere else. Each year we get to take his classes and learn more from him. Each year, his teachings reach me on a new level. When I hit a low, somehow he calls to ask if everything is alright. Whenever I feel I am ready for the next step, Max is there to teach me with something new.
This summer, I got to study with Max and his friend, Pir Zia. When I was there, Max and I spoke of how students can get in a rut practicing with the same teacher. This thought kept going through my head. How do we know if a teacher is right for us? I spoke to Max about this further when he was (in Greenville this September).
Here is what you can ask yourself: Does your teacher serve your purposes? Has your life changed as a result of his or her teachings? After a time studying with this person, are you still angry and resentful? If so, it may be time to move on. As you change, has your teacher been able to grow with you?
If you have studied with the same person for a year or more and you have not shifted, it is time for a new teacher. There is one one thing to consider as honestly as you can before changing teachers--Ask yourself if you are truly listening to your teacher. If you take class consistently, but are unwilling to listen to your teacher (for physical adjustments or emotional ones); then you may need to stay with the same teacher, but expand your mindset to include all of their instructions in your practice.
We seek out teachers with knowledge that we trust. When we don't listen to them, we are shutting ourselves off from potential growth.
We see students all the time that come from other places. They tell us how "advanced" they are, but they are the first ones to cuss when falling out of a balance pose. My favorite was a student visiting from the west coast who told us she was a fourth level ashtanga student. One day we got a voice mail with a barrage of profanity... Then another one. The third voice mail was sweet as pie, "Hi, I want to come to yoga today." It was the same woman on all three messages. I am not sure she was with the right teacher.
Take some time to reflect on why you come to yoga. Do you get what you want? Or what you need? Do you feel a shift in yourself that you take with you when you leave the yoga room? Are you a kinder person due to your yoga class? Or do you leave more arrogant then when you arrived? Does your ego take over and tell you how great you are? Do you have more humility? After thinking about these things honestly, you will know if your teacher is right for you.
[to read more of liz's writing, visit the namaste greenville site. link to the right.]